Wednesday, August 19, 2015

Unanswered Prayers


(Audio version; Music: "The Hurt & The Healer" and "Bring The Rain" by: MercyMe)








Introduction

            I watched a movie the other night with my wife and daughter called God’s Not Dead. I know many of you who are reading this haven’t seen the movie and don’t have access to the movie. So this is going to be a spoiler alert—It’s a fairly low budget film from Hollywood’s perspective which has, unfortunately, become one of the trademarks for Christian films. Nevertheless, it was a pretty good film so if you do get a chance to see it, I think you’ll like it as long as you’re not expecting a cinematic masterpiece. There were various sub-plots throughout the film depicting different people either accepting Christ as their Savior or rejecting Him. However, the main plot revolved around a college philosophy professor who, not surprisingly was an atheist, and a freshman student who was a Christian. The professor proclaimed to His students that the idea of God was dead and that reason and intellect ruled supreme. The freshman student disagreed and that set the stage for a challenge by the professor to the student to prove to the class that God’s not dead. During the final climactic struggle of ideas between student and professor, the student confronted the professor regarding his obvious disdain for a God he didn’t even believe existed. When the student pressed the professor for an explanation of why he hated a God he didn’t even believe in, the professor confessed that he was at one point a Christian when he was young boy. He explained that his mother had become ill with cancer and although he prayed and prayed and prayed, his mother, whom he cherished, still died. It was at that point that he said he stopped believing in God. I won’t spoil the rest of the movie for those of you who want to see it but it does have a happy ending.

            It is no surprise that the film depicted an atheist that was once a Christian who at some point became disenchanted with the life of being a follower of Christ. This is actually common in real life as well—especially when it comes to Unanswered Prayers. I’ll be honest with you, this is where I empathize with atheists. In large part because I’ve prayed at the bedside of a number of very sick people, some of whom where my friends, and unfortunately most of them still died. I prayed, probably hundreds of times when I was growing up for God to get my dad to stop drinking and hitting me—nothing changed. How many times have you prayed for your child to stop the drugs just to find yourself delivering him or her to rehab for the umpteenth time? How long have you been praying for God to bless you with a child and still you are childless? How often have you prayed that your spouse would love you more than their work or their other distractions just to watch them put yet another “thing” ahead of you? How long have you prayed for something that for all intents and purposes seems perfectly reasonable yet you are left with only Unanswered Prayers? You’ve prayed for God to send you a spouse; You’ve prayed for God to heal someone you love; You’ve prayed for God to pave the way to get into graduate school; You’ve prayed for God to provide you with a new job or any job for that matter; You’ve prayed for God to help you overcome a particularly unrelenting sin in your life. And what do you get for all your fervent, sincere, and repeated prayers? Sometimes you get the answer you’re hoping for and life is great and being a follower is easy. However, most of the time, at least in my case, we’re left with Unanswered Prayers and that’s when being a follower of Christ is very difficult. That’s when we arrive at the same fork in the road where many atheists have stood and decided that the disappointment and pain from Unanswered Prayers is unacceptable and unbearable and they take the fork in the road that leads to a life of unbelief. For the rest of us who have taken the fork in the road that leads to a life of continued belief, we have to somehow come to terms with a life of Unanswered Prayers in the face of seemingly clear biblical support that God answers all prayers positively that are offered in faith.

Subject Text

James 5:13-20

            13Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. 14Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. 15And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. 16Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. 17Elijah was a man just like us. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years. 18Again he prayed, and the heavens gave rain, and the earth produced its crops. 19My brothers, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, 20remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins.

Context

            This letter was written by Jesus’ brother who was a leader of the Church in Jerusalem. Generally, the letter is intended to expose some hypocritical practices like playing favorites and to teach appropriate Christian behavior like putting what they heard and said they believed into action. Specifically, however, James was concerned about the persecution of a group of Christians who were once part of the Church in Jerusalem. James wanted them to remain unified and avoid internal disputes while striving to better their lot in life. Finally, James wanted them to be patient in their suffering and stand firm in their faith. James’ audience was clearly struggling with a number of issues that James is seeking to clarify including the place of prayer in their lives.

Text Analysis

            13Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise.

            Just like we have a tendency to separate the sacred from the secular, we tend to turn to God when we’re broken and in trouble but forget about Him when we’re happy. What James is saying in v. 13, though, is that our lives can never be separated from God during any times—good or bad. Remember it is always about relationship with God. I imagine we’ve all had a friend at some point who comes to us only after they’ve messed up their lives or need something from us. How do you feel about that kind of friendship? It’s not very good is it? But we’ve also had that friend who is present and available for the good and bad parts of life—ours and theirs. Relationship with that person is usually rich and meaningful. A deep and meaningful relationship is the type of relationship God desires with us. However, that’s not possible if the only time we go to Him is when our lives are on fire and we need Him to put out the flames. God wants to know that we depend on Him to care for us but He also wants to be part of the celebration of our lives. Here’s what you need to understand about v. 13. James seems to set up a sharp distinction between prayer and praise. Prayer is associated with trouble and praise is associated with happiness. I will concede that the two may look and sound differently, but that’s as far as I’m willing to go based on the experience of my own life virtually every week. My life has often seen the two reversed where I pray during the times when my life seems to be working and I praise God during some of the darker hours of my life. I don’t think James is so much prescribing a formula as much as he is describing a principle of including God in all aspects of our lives in whatever form that might take. Grammatically, the word James uses for “pray” is intended to convey a continuous action not a singular even. In other words, James isn’t saying that we are to shoot up a quick prayer to God for our troubles as though we are checking it off our to-do list. Instead, it has a sense of abiding in God particularly during the difficulties of our lives.

“Christians pray both in times of trouble and in times of joy. In times of trouble Christians often fall victim to self-pity, anger, or morbid introspection. James directed Christians to pray rather than surrender to these wrong responses. Trouble includes physical and emotional stress arising from both ordinary trials and special spiritual difficulties. Sufferers must not stop their prayers after a quick prayer for help. They must live in an attitude of prayer. Happy describes a cheerful, elated mood. This is not a giddy, flippant outlook but a mood of cheer and optimism. Prosperity and pleasant experiences in life can cause a person to forsake God due to complacency or worldly contentment. Instead, life’s good times should lead us to sing songs of praise to God as the author of the blessings…This command does not demand the use of music but calls for the expression of words or thoughts to praise or thank God. Christians who face trouble often lose their awareness of the presence of God due to gloom. Christians who have elation tend to forget God in the joy of their good success. Both darkness and sunshine should lead believers to a consciousness of God.”[1]

14Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. 15And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. 16Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

            These are particularly troublesome verses from our Subject Text. On paper, James’ instruction in vv. 14-16 seems perfectly clear and without equivocation. But most, if not all of us, know that it usually doesn’t work in real life. And this is precisely the intersection where so many atheists relinquished their faith and now travel the road of unbelief. I’ll be honest with you, I’ve been at this intersection more than once in my life. A number of years ago, a very good friend of mine who was an elder of our church and still a young man, was diagnosed with a particularly heinous form of cancer. Many of us prayed for him—men and women far more righteous and godly than me. Other elders of the church prayed for him and anointed him with oil and do you know what happened to him after years of brutal treatments and equally brutal and invasive surgeries? He died and left behind a young wife and their young daughter as well as a grieving congregation. So what happened? We tend to make excuses to answer the questions surrounding these verses to avoid the uncomfortable situation that arises whenever the reality of life smashes into the immovable rock of God’s Word. So, without excuses, we need to take a hard look at these verses and see what they are and what they are not saying. James is saying that our prayers will open the door to miraculous healing. James is not saying that God will provide healing even if that healing is not according to His will just because a prayer for healing was offered in faith by someone righteous. It is important to remember the over-arching principle of the Bible—nothing occurs that God does not allow according to His will. Just because something doesn’t make sense to us, like the tragic death of a young man who was a devout man of God, a loving husband and father, and a faithful friend, doesn’t mean that it occurred outside of God’s sovereignty.

            I’m not making any excuse for what seems like a pretty simple teaching by James. If someone is sick and a righteous person prays for them and anoints them with oil, they’ll be healed. Simple right? Except it presumes that it is God’s will that all people should never be sick in this life. I want you to think about that for a minute. Does that conform to reality? Do Christians only die of old age? Obviously not. Are they doing something wrong? Do they not have the right people praying for them? Do they not deserve to be healed? Do they not have enough faith? Are they not righteous enough? Here’s the answer: They’re probably not doing something wrong. They probably have the right people praying for them. They probably deserve to be healed. They probably have enough faith. And if they are believers then they are righteous enough. What they probably don’t have is God’s consent to the longed-for healing. Even Paul said he asked God to remove a thorn from his side that caused him considerable anguish. But God didn’t see fit to remove Paul’s thorn because God determined that there was something more important than Paul’s comfort and relief. God determined to demonstrate His strength through Paul’s weakness.

            “Certain preachers and writers make a great deal of this call for faith, insisting that a believer simply needs to have enough faith in order to receive healing from the Lord. The devastating result of this line of thinking is that believers who are not healed when they pray must deal with a twofold burden: added to their remaining physical challenge is the assumption that they lack sufficient faith. But this way of looking at faith and its results is profoundly unbiblical. And, in James, at least, the prayer of faith that heals in v. 15 is offered not by the sufferer but by the elders (v. 14). Are the elders, therefore, at fault when their prayer for healing does not bring results in a reasonable amount of time? Would the healing have taken place if they had just believed?

            Answering such a question involves us in the finely nuanced broader issue of the relationship between God’s sovereignty and our prayers. But we can say this much. The faith exercised in prayer is faith in the God who sovereignly accomplishes his will. When we pray, our faith recognizes, explicitly or implicitly, the overruling providential purposes of God. We may at times be given insight into that will, enabling us to pray with absolute confidence in God’s plan to answer as we ask. But surely these cases are rare—more rare even than our subjective, emotional desires would lead us to suspect. A prayer for healing, then, must usually be qualified by a recognition that God’s will in the matter is supreme. And it is clear in the NT that God does not always will to heal the believer. Paul’s own prayer for his healing, offered three times, was not answered; God had a purpose in allowing the ‘thorn in the flesh,’ that ‘messenger of Satan,’ to remain (2 Cor 12:7-9). Note also Titus 3:20, where Paul mentions that ‘he left Tromphimus sick in Miletus.’ The faith with which we pray is always faith in the God whose will is supreme and best; only sometimes does this faith include assurance that a particular request is within that will. This is exactly the qualification that is needed to understand Jesus’ own promise: ‘You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it’ (John 14:14). To ask ‘in Jesus’ name’ means not simply to utter his name, but to take into account his will. Only those requests offered ‘in that will’ are granted. Prayer for healing offered in the confidence that God will answer that prayer does bring healing; but only when it is God’s will to heal will that faith, itself a gift of God, be present.”[2]

17Elijah was a man just like us. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years. 18Again he prayed, and the heavens gave rain, and the earth produced its crops.

            James invokes the Old Testament story of Elijah for his audience in vv. 17-18 to illustrate his point about the power of prayer. He’s saying that Elijah was just a regular person like anyone else. And when Elijah prayed “earnestly,” James is saying that Elijah prayed with the faith that God would grant his request for the rain to stop and then commence once again after three and a half years. We might take James’ illustration out of context but remember that James’ primary audience was Christian Jews who fled Jerusalem. It is highly unlikely that they took his words out of context. And if we take a closer look at James’ illustration it will serve to demonstrate that Elijah was only successful because he offered his prayers in accordance with God’s will. You’ll find the record of Elijah’s ministry begin in 1 Kings 17. Elijah was prophet of Israel and Judah during the reign of the evil King Ahab and his equally evil Queen Jezebel both who worshipped the pagan god Baal and led Israel into this evil as well. Those who worshipped Baal believed he had the power to bring rain and ensure a bountiful harvest. This is the context into which Elijah’s ministry is thrust. So Elijah prayed for the rain to end because he believed it was completely within the will of God for God to demonstrate exactly who it is that controls the rain—the God of Israel or the false-god Baal. You see, Elijah’s primary purpose was to turn Israel’s collective hearts and minds back to their first love; the one true God; the One who is sovereign over all of creation including the rain.

            “The Kings account of Elijah’s encounter with Ahab does not refer to Elijah’s prayer unless the phrase ‘whom I serve’ stands for his prayer indirectly. The kind of prayer Elijah prayed to stop the rain probably was like what he uttered at the end of the three-and-a-half-year drought. In 1 Kgs 18:1 the Lord informed Elijah that he would cause the rain to fall again for his people. Elijah, fulfilling the prophetic function of mediation, was led to the moment of prayer for rain that demonstrates the sole lordship of God…Elijah’s prayer included the following: ‘Answer me, O LORD, answer me, so these people will know that you, O LORD, are God, and that you are turning their hearts back again’ (1 Kgs 18:37). The repetition of this prayer expresses the earnestness of the prophet, along with the absolute confidence in the purposes of God for wayward Israel. And we note the intent of the prayer: not merely to demonstrate the power and truth of God but most of all to fulfill his purpose of converting Israel back to faithfulness…Elijah was an instrument of God’s lordship not over the regularities of seasonal rainfall but over the extraordinary regulation of the elements that are the Lord’s prerogative…

            The second prayer of Elijah reversed the famine-producing effects of the first prayer…God is always the ‘giver’ of that which is good, of grace, and even of trial that is meant to convert the sinner and the sinful people of God. God will not answer prayers to a false god but only the prayers of those who pray faithfully according to his word that saves and heals. This giving that saves and heals produced the needed crops after three and a half years of famine…James viewed Elijah as exemplifying any righteous believer whose prayer is heard by God. The prophet of God was given wisdom not only to endure his trials but also to mediate the word of God to his generation. Elijah knew the will of God concerning the signs of drought and rain; this knowledge was why he prayed so fervently. By applying Scripture believers can know and should do the will of God through their own fervent praying, whether it be a matter of planning their business affairs, persevering through suffering, searching for healing, or asking for forgiveness of sin.”[3]

19My brothers, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, 20remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins.

            It’s hard to know how vv. 19-20 fit into the context of our Subject Text and I want you to be careful not to read anything into my explanation. It is possible that some of James’ audience believed that sin is the cause of illness in people. We can see this in the exchange between Jesus and the disciples when Jesus healed a man who was blind from birth (Jn 9:2-3). The disciples asked Jesus whose sin was responsible for the man’s blindness—his or his father’s. Jesus made it clear that the man’s blindness wasn’t the result of sin. We live in a broken world of sickness and death and every single person who has been sick, is sick now, or will be sick in the future, is also a sinner. However, we must be very, very careful trying to draw a straight line between sin and sickness. Here’s how far I’m willing to go in terms of a general principle with respect to the relationship between sin and sickness: According to the account of Adam and Eve from Genesis, the first sin; original sin, introduce brokenness into creation. Sin gave birth to all of humanity’s grief, suffering, sickness, pain, and death. So in that respect, all sickness is the result of sin in a general sense so it’s not necessary to insist that sickness is the result of any specific sin even though that could be true in some cases. There is, however, another type of sickness that afflicts all of us that falls specifically within the purview of vv. 19-20—spiritual sickness; spiritual sickness that is specifically the result of sin in our lives and separates us from God. If we read vv. 19-20 in that context then they fit perfectly in the overall context of sickness and healing. In this case, spiritual sickness is healed when a person confesses their sins and are forgiven and once again reconciled to God.

Here’s what I can say about these verses with certainty—James is talking about our duty to rescue our fellow Christians who, by their willful sins, have wandered away from what they once said they believed. James talks about turning the sinner away from the error of their sins. I hate to tell you this but that means we have a duty to confront them about their sins. This is the part where it gets really, really hard because there is such a fine line between tossing a rope around someone’s neck and strangling them with self-righteous judgment and tossing them a rope in order to pull them to the safety of being reconciled back to God.

            “The parable of the ‘lost sheep’ reminds the congregation that it is to be a community of people watching out for the sister and brother, a community in which members help one another stay on track, to continue to ‘walk in line with the truth of the Gospel,’ to borrow a phrase from Paul…Out of respect for another’s ‘privacy’ or ‘rights,’ or out of a philosophy of ‘minding one’s own business,’ or out of a post-modern sense of ‘tolerance’ and ‘diversity,’ many believers are reluctant to take up [the] challenge to identify the erring, go after the wanderers, and bring them back to the right way. That hesitancy has facilitated many affairs, divorces, acts of dishonesty and acts of abuse. Individuals facing powerful temptations of deep-rooted tendencies need the support, encouragement and commitment of their sisters and brother if they are to rise victorious over the powers that seek to make shipwreck of their faith.”[4]

Application

            On the night when Jesus was betrayed, He was in the Garden of Gethsemane praying. He was praying one of the most real prayers I’ve every heard, given His circumstances and what He knew was coming. He prayed, “Father, if there is another way, then could you please do this another way (Mt 26:36-46).” If you know or read the events that follow the night in the garden, then you know why Jesus was asking the Father if He could carry out his plan some other way. I say it’s one of the most real prayers I ever heard because it’s like so many of mine and I bet it’s like so many of yours too—prayers that are heard but remain unanswered. You pray for your marriage to work but it’s still broken and causes you so much pain and grief every day. You pray for a new job but you continue to have to labor in a job that dehumanizes and sucks the life out of you. You pray for a child of your own but you lose a little more hope with every pregnancy test that comes back negative. You pray for the safety of your family but Muslims are pressing in around you every day with their evil hatred for Christians. You pray and pray and pray but all you have to show for all your prayers is Unanswered Prayers. I suppose God could be answering the prayers with a “no” but that’s no better because then we’d be left with unanswered questions of why in place of Unanswered Prayers. Imagine if you had a sick child and you went to God to ask for healing and God simply said “no” and allowed your child to die. Do you really think that’s how God operates? Does God allow children who are sick to die? I’ve been to see the very sick babies my daughter cares for at Los Angeles Children’s Hospital and I know sick children do, in fact, die right in the midst of people praying for their healing. Did God say no to the prayers for healing? Sort of, I guess. But I think what He is really saying is, “someday I’ll grant you your request but for now I have a different plan. You might not like it or understand it but I need you to trust Me that I know what I’m doing.” Of course you don’t actually know what God is saying so you’re left to struggle with Unanswered Prayers as you stand and stare at the grave of your child.

            Do Unanswered Prayers ever make sense? Usually, Unanswered Prayers will only make sense in the life to come. However, sometimes we get a glimpse into God’s reason behind Unanswered Prayers in this life. Growing up in a home with an abusive alcoholic father, I prayed one of those very real prayers all the time. I prayed and I prayed and I prayed that the alcohol-fueled rage would stop, but it didn’t and all I was left with was Unanswered Prayers. However, now, looking back nearly 40 years, I can imagine God said, “someday I’ll grant you your request but for now I have a different plan. You might not like it or understand it but I need you to trust Me that I know what I’m doing.” After having the opportunity to speak into many lives who have had to endure similar pain and been able to offer them hope and encouragement, I can be thankful for Unanswered Prayers. Let’s go back even farther though to Jesus’ prayer in the garden. Jesus asked the Father to let the cup that awaited Him to pass. Imagine how hard that request was on the Father. Do you really think the Father’s answer was a plain and simple no? I doubt the answer was plain or simple. Nevertheless, the plan remained unchanged and regardless of how much Jesus wanted to avoid what was coming, He trusted that the Father’s plan was best. So He submitted His plea to the Father’s will and the Father’s will was for Jesus to be falsely accused, stand trial at a sham trial, be insulted, abused, and tortured and finally be nailed to a cross and die. But look at what happened as a result. Atonement was made for humanity’s sin as a result of Jesus’ death. And Jesus’ death made the resurrection possible. Jesus’ resurrection is the single most important event that resulted from the Unanswered Prayers back in the garden—because the resurrection marked the end of death as the end. So next time you’re struggling under the weight of your own Unanswered Prayers, try to remember that one of the most significant Unanswered Prayers in all of history made it possible for you to spend eternity with God.





[1] Thomas D. Lea, Hebrews & James—Holman New Testament Commentary, (Nashville, TN: B&H Publishing Group, 1999), p. 346.
[2] Douglas J. Moo, The Letter of James—The Pillar New Testament Commentary, (Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 2000), pp. 244-245.
[3] Kurt A. Richardson, James—The New American Commentary, (Nashville, TN: B&H Publishing Group, 1997), pp. 240-242.
[4] David A. deSilva, An Introduction to the New Testament: Contexts, Methods & Ministry Formation, (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2004), p. 296.


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